b'FINDING YOUR BEST YOUBy Dr. Melanie Ross Mills | ContributorIts March. How are you faring on your New Years resolutions?Studies have shown that after a year only about 15% of people have been successful at keeping their resolutions. New Years resolutions are a great way to give your life direction toward your goals, but January 1st isnt the only time to make a life change. Springtime is an excellent time for a new start if, perhaps, our New Years resolutions didnt go quite as well as we hoped (and even if they did). A fresh new season is here for us to embrace new routines, new ways of thinking, and new beginnings. Not as a resolution this time, but as a life change. Where to start?No need for a long list. Choose one or two key words that will guide you daily as you make decisions and new lifestyle choices over the next 9 months.Choose one of these or brainstorm your own.SIMPLIFY: I WILL WORK ON SIMPLIFYINGMake life less complicated. Make a conscious effort not to take on what youcant control. Streamline your priorities and dont let outside distractors get in the way. Limit your toxic influences.JOURNAL: I WILL JOURNAL MY THOUGHTSTake time to look at the deeper parts of your heart, mind, and emotions. Each night write down your overall thoughts for the day. Which ones areserving you well and which ones are holding you back? Are you living or holding onto the past? Are you emotionally open and available to build quality relationships? ACTIVE: I WILL BE MORE ACTIVEMake a conscious effort to walk and do more physically. Walk to your neighbors house instead of driving. Take the stairs instead of the elevator. Ride your bike to thegrocery store.NOURISH: I WILL NOURISH MY HEART, MIND, AND SPIRITDigest what is good for you. Eat more power foods. Pay attention to what your mind takes in visually and how it affects you. Chose to watch and listen to things that are nourishing and life-giving. Spend time cultivating your spiritual life.OTHERS: I WILL THINK MORE ABOUT OTHERSFocus outwards. The more you think of ways to help others, the less you think about what youre lacking. Share with the world what you have to offer. Make aconcentrated effort to make a difference.PURGE: I WILL CLEAN HOUSEClean house - donate what you dont use. Clean out your pantry, cabinets, and closets. Clutter can weigh us down without us even knowing it. Let go of what you dont need.BUILD: I WILL INVEST IN PEOPLESpend time with those people who interest you. Make time for those that will benefit from your life experience. Connect with mentors that are wiser than you; learn from them.GRATEFULNESS: I WILL SEE THE GOOD MORE OFTENPay attention to the little things that make life a little sweeter - from a neighbor picking up your newspaper to a stranger holding your door. Let those around you know why you are thankful for them.MINDFULNESS: I WILL BE MORE MINDFULRest and breathe. Take time to be fully present. Listen to those around you. Engage with your heart. Notice the details in the small things.Springtime is the best time to launch new beginnings. Opportunities and new life awaits. Its ours for the taking if were willing to put in the effort.Editors Note: For more information, you can reach Dr. Mills at www.melanierossmills.com.GoodLifeFamilyMag.comMARCH 202017'