We asked local moms, “What do you consider ‘me’ time?”
And here’s what they said…
Carie McAfee, mom of a daughter, 16 and son, 18
I believe the first me time I can remember successfully carving out started after baby number four, 17 years ago! I had tried exercising in front of videos, but basically I was working all the time and had too much mommy guilt to leave the kids for anything for myself. But one day while breastfeeding, I discovered reading—for pleasure! This clever multi-tasking concept allowed me to read part of a novel with each feeding, which turned into an anticipated oasis in my hectic day. Ten years ago, I co-founded a book club with some other Type A moms, and we are still going strong, meeting once a month over wine and dinner to share wit and wisdom and some ‘girl time’ therapy too.”
Dr. Katie Blakely, anesthesiologist, mom of 4 boys aged 17 to 27.
I don’t consider myself an artist, but I do like playing with paint. My three hours in art class are relaxing—almost meditative. I don’t paint at home…too many distractions, not to mention the guilt. How can I paint a picture when there’s laundry to do, a dishwasher to unload and the endless chirping of my cell phone? To me, painting at home means walls, cabinets and doors! But when I go to my weekly art class, it’s all about watercolors, acrylics and alcohol inks. A delightful change of pace! And on Friday evenings, you can find me proudly showing my family my latest work of art!”
Kim Brown, GLF Advertising Manager, mom of a daughter in college and a graduating high school senior son
“To end my day, I enjoy reading a good book. I also like to create family scrapbooks, and I try to take a weekend trip to scrapbook with friends every year.”
Lisa Schumacher, preschool Office Manager and PTSO President, JPII High School, mom of 2 teenagers
Ann Myer, Office Manager, mother of 16-year old twins
Beth Thompson, flight attendant, volunteer and mom of two sons, 16 and 18
“Me time: I wish I could say working out…but for me it is definitely making time for lunch and dinner with girlfriends. I also get up early and spend some alone time (between 5 am and 6 am). While everyone is sleeping, I can have a couple of hours of coffee and quiet. Sometimes I will read, cruise social media (Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest) or just take time to play some games on my phone.”
Tina Borden, PTA volunteer and mother of 2 (daughter in high school, son in college)
Teresa Niermeyer, empty nester, mother of 2 (one college graduate and one in college at Saint Louis University)
Debbie Rose, empty nester, wife and mother of 2 sons in college
“I enjoy my morning walks with a friend. Not only do I get exercise, but I also am able to enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and a little time to talk out life’s issues with a trusted friend.”
Jennifer Gibson, nurse and PTA volunteer, mother of three—a high school senior, one in college and one in the work force. And a new grandmother!!
Rhonda Wulz, mother of 4, ages 26, 23, and 20-year old twins